Monday, November 30, 2009

Marital problems - Do You Really Trust Your Spouse?


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Do you really trust your spouse? Does your spouse have? Trust These are very difficult questions for many spouses. On the other hand, some blatantly spouses their spouses to know how they feel about this marriage issue. We've found that when trust is lacking in a marriage of love and commitment that should be either missing or present tense.

Let us consider these two points:


So the man thinks he is
In the story above, we seewhere John Mary because of the trust, what had happened with his parents. However, if you are with your spouse and you see someone who seems to be better than his, you feel threatened?

Are you worried that he can take a look at it and fall for them or they can steal it? Well, then you can in the same batch of people who do not trust their spouse.

Think about it, perhaps the reason why you think that these things, because what you want to do or would do. Much of the time the man deceives the woman and revolves around the suspicion of infidelity of the woman.

As the saying goes, "so a man thinketh, so is he." The Bible also suggests that it is from the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks. Therefore, it is in us before it comes out.



Trust is a two way street
If love is the currency in which marriage is the trust of the wallet to carry it. If you have money, put it in your wallet or purse. So it is with love, if you> Love should you want the confidence that you love.

There is nothing more stressful than a combined spouse who does not trust his partner. Every action or word would be decomposed to determine whether it is a betrayal.

Trust must go both ways. You can not expect to pick up every day to go do your own thing, late at night, on weekends, not including your spouse and do not communicate your whereabouts to come, but expect your spouse to trust them. Then, if he or she makesthe same thing you are excited and start to have doubts about his loyalty.

As you learn to have confidence in your spouse, you have them always the reason to trust you. Mark and I know what we are doing. This is something that we communicate before leaving in the morning. Actually we plan our week together on the weekend schedule and we are usually together, things alone or with friends.

Mark would make fun of me for always saying: "So, what's the plan." Well, that's his favorite isPhrase. As an both of us, we share everything, and it must not be a secret.

No one can experience a healthy and fulfilling marriage if it suspicious. If you do not censure a legitimate reason for your spouse, then this is an area in your marriage, you must overcome. If not, you will be plagued with a variety of marriage and divorce problems, could one of them.

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