Warning: The content of this article, you can. Disturb In fact, I recommend that you close this page. If you're like most people, you have a childlike naivete about romance. I do not want to spoil you. Sure, you have succeeded, the truth about Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy handle (oops, you did not know about the tooth fairy? Sorry ...), but maybe you're not ready to learn, through painful love's truths.
Okay, if you read this paragraph, you are either verycurious, stubborn, or foolish. I warned you not to read further, so that if you continue to do so at your own risk.
Twelve painful truths about love:
1 love will not make you happy, not the long term. In fact, it was never love 's job to make someone happy. But for some reason, more and more people enter into relationships thinking that they have signed up for a life full of happiness.
2nd love is unpredictable and does not provideguaranteed. If it is certain that after you, do yourself (and your partner) a favor and stay in the dugout. If you have entered the game of love, you lose, like it or not. There is no way around this truth.
3 Love is not enough to your relationship healthy and running smoothly. Although the Beatles know that is all we need love, the truth is that they were wrong. (And not only for preventing the protocol does not love John, Paul, George and Ringo fromend up divorced.)
4. You can love someone and not like them. Life can be pretty unpleasant life with love, but someone who you do not like. For some reason couples stop behaving in such a way as to preserve their likability factor. Big mistake.
5th love does not keep passion alive passion passion alive. If you do not care for romantic and erotic, you will end up in the land of platonic love. While this might work for some, unfortunately, many make their needshave to have sex in order to preserve their relationship.
6. One can feel lonely and still be in love with. This painful truth often leads to a lack of confidence or an inability to share the risk to take all of yourself with your partner. People who feel lonely, you are vulnerable to outside their relationship for what is lacking irony ( "this pattern of loneliness can be followed from relationship to relationship).
7. The old adage "love is blind" has merit. YourCan be in love feelings (and your wish) some painful truths about your partner, not clear especially at the beginning of the relationship. Instead of adequately dealing with the inadequacies of the relationship, as they have arisen, your love-sighted vision can allow problems associated with solid and growing, and before you know it, love is a thing of the past.
8. Even within committed, stable relationships, love can be imbalanced and inconstant. You may find that youLove or need your partner more than he / she loves or needs you. And another time the reverse may be true. Because people are dynamic, evolving creatures, the love they feel for each other is also subject to change over time.
9th Love includes a fall. Often, the relationship would lead to unrealistic expectations and ideals that have more to do with a Hollywood script than real life. When love guide you into the arms of the partner, it is up to you,to throw to the Hollywood script and preparing to survive for the day-to-day work required for love.
10. Being in love can hurt. Loving the wrong person hurts even more. Here is the irony: If you wish to receive the gifts of intimacy, you must be humble, to love's door, without the protective armor that it has screened in your single life. When you step up to this risk, the joys and wonders of life, suffering and sometimes do in life.
11. For someReason is that love does not prevent wrinkles, or irrational arguments. If you forget this truth, you are less likely to stay together through the inevitable downturn requires that all travel relationships.
12. The love that you do not feel at least. This is particularly the case if not give couples, their relationship the attention and efforts are needed to keep it healthy. Because of the euphoria accompanying the new love, one might mistakenly assume that yourRelationship is immune to the struggles others face. The reality is, all relationships (including yours) are vulnerable and can buckle under stress.
There you have it, some unpleasant truths about love. Are you still willing to give also to the plate and the game of love? If you're like most, you will probably "yes" answer to this question. Love Despite all the risks, the people, being in love. When you idealize the type of person, love, keep theseList handy and back, so you just in case you need a dose of reality.
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