Thursday, December 31, 2009

Save Your Marriage - Is Your Marriage Worth Saving?


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They are probably not many married people who say that marriage is very simple. Every relationship has difficulties, so it works well. However, there are times where you ask yourself when you can save your marriage and if it is worth saved. When considering whether or not you should all try to save your relationship, there are some aspects that you should think about it.

Some questions are in themselves:

-What attracted you to your partner?
-WhatShe fall in love with this person?
-Were you really in love or was it just infatuation?
-What is your history together?
-Have you had good times together with the bad?
-Are the good times outweigh the bad?
-What are the causes or reasons for the bad questions?
-Do you think you can see the obstacles to overcome these problems?
-If you have children, you have seriously thought about how a separation or divorce will affect them?

Reply to thisQuestions honestly and even write your answers down to a later date to check.

Now think about what you play imagine Properties "perfect" spouse. Write these thoughts down. Be realistic in your expectations are not unrealistic ideals set by you just doomed to failure. Not everyone can even Prince Charming every woman can become a super model.

Continue to think about how your spouse as compared to that which is suitable for you. Is he or she associated in most areas and there is aserious flaws missing?

Now, look over your answers to the questions and really examine what you have written you. I hope this exercise has to examine and evaluate you the opportunity to help your relationship to determine its value.

Your marriage is probably the most important relationship in your life. The attempt to save the marriage can be difficult, but in most cases, couples should try to save their marriage commitment to each other, if at allpossible. Yes, there is a lot of work and commitment to take, but if you believe that your marriage is worth saving, then your chances of success are great.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Love, marriage and stinking Thinking S2E3

Mark talks about "girly men" and the feminization of America and the Church, including the list of Dr. Steven Clark, The Signs of Man "feminization". Mark and Debbie talk teaches people not to live by their feelings about a good idea. For more information about the show and more from Mark Gungor, please check our website www.stinkingthinking.tv



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Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Back & Forth (marriage Sequel, P1; It Takes Two.). Wmv

NO RECAP. You'll get there eventually. : D ----- 3 years later, wakes up with miley-miley: [looks over and sees Adam lay beside her, smiling at the sight of their children stands up, stretching increases down the stairs in silence; looks into the living room, sees joe still sleeping on the couch.] joe: [talking in his sleep.] I love you, Miles ... miley: [looks, puts her hand on his stomach crying to go into the kitchen.] joe wakes up: [hears someone crying in the kitchen.] miley? miley ...



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Monday, December 28, 2009

Marriage - I Do not Love You Anymore

Remember the title of this article for a moment and corny as it sounds. I love you no more. In fact, if one spouse says: "I do not love you anymore" it means they want to love you anymore. Selfishness has taken precedent in the life of that person and they are just tired of doing things that show love, as victims, respect and responsibility. Since all three of them, what love!

There is so much of the "I do not knowLove You Anymore "between couples in marriage, that marriage gurus to come more and more articles and books on" how you back your ex "and win" as you make your ex-Fall in love again with you. "What kind of love are these articles? You can not just" fall out of love "with your spouse or significant other if you do not really love the first place.

You should not have to try and win back your ex-wife if heit belongs to you. Has not God bless you with the person you married? Of course he has. Couples should read articles to bring God into their marriage, so they can learn how to love one another with genuine love is. What is true love? "If you sacrifice a part of your self and for your spouse, love is. If you try, your spouse, that understand the love. When you do things that prove the love, even if you do not feel that is love.

So you see, when all is said and done, it will not matter what you try to worldly tactics loved, "being" or "win back love" or "love others" if you committed the relationship. Marriage is commitment is life and the marriage of non-involvement is a lifestyle.

For example, if you used to live by your feelings and do what you want the lifestyle you have made for yourself, then. If you show yourself to be used'Love through the exchange of self and working conditions, it's a loving person in your marriage then you made that your lifestyle. Your commitment level shows in your lifestyle, it does make you need for your marriage.

The "I love you anymore" attitude is based only on emotions, and that's all. The person who says that love them, "you no more" can not really believe because they have learned that love is a feeling. If you think you are the first "in love" with someone that is just a mixture of pleasure and lust. That's all it is. For this reason, after two or three years, when those feelings are gone, you think not "in love" anymore.

If you want to save your marriage "be committed! You need to "show your love" by your commitment. It does not matter how you feel each other as much as what you do, stay married. You can make a life for your unbound> Marriage or you may be responsible for "your role in marriage and with what God has blessed you with happiness. It's all up to you to take. You make your own luck!

Think about it is that love is not how you feel, but what you do. Have you shown your love for your spouse today? "Love is a choice. Choose to love or not love. Select the responsibility for your wedding or not. Choose to sacrifice for your happinessIn the interest of the spouse, or not. Choose to love, because it is what Jesus Christ taught us to do.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Only Fools Fall in Love (呆佬拜寿) - Part 9

Only Fools Fall in Love (呆佬拜寿) - Part 9 Starring: Sean Lau Ching Wan, Jacqueline Wu Chien Lien, Dayo Wong, Yuen Wah Genres: Comedy in 1995 HK Movies Cantonese Version Fuk Chiu was the master of the family, he was intelligent But miserable. Fuk was injured in the head and turned stupid during a Chinese tradition ceremony. His brother Jack was so jealous that he ganged against Fuk try with a street lady Mo Dee, string Fuk by marrying play with him. Thereafter, Mo., Dee was in...



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Saturday, December 26, 2009

Marriage Intimacy - Making Love Tips


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There are many things that make a good marriage together. Good sex is one of them. Both husband and wife should be able to meet each other. You should know each other more than any other sexually.

If it would have been so easy unmarried couples problem. They would always satisfy their sexual partners. Unfortunately, many couples having sex could not be satisfied. That was because their partner did not know how they must be given toPleasure.

You have to learn the joy of your partner. They must learn to turn on him or her. You need to find the right moment, when your spouse have sexual desire, and she or he may feel that you both can be satisfied.

Good sex life needs maintenance. Good sex life needs new ideas every once in a while. If you do things the same way over and over again it becomes routine.

Sometimes it helps to try new sexual positions. You should try what they want, andcomfortable for them. But not even hurt. Sometimes oral sex can be very pleasant for them, even if it is done the right way. Both of you can learn to make some new techniques oral love. Once again sexual intimacy, she will let you know what she wants, and she is not fake.

Sometimes, premature ejaculation can cause a problem. You can not be satisfied if your erection last long enough. With the right exercise, you can prevent premature ejaculation. Some penisYou can even exercise your penis larger without pills.

Intimacy is very important in a happy marriage, sexual intimacy is also important. If you ever get lost, how to win it back.

Friday, December 25, 2009

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Thursday, December 24, 2009

How do you know when your marriage is over? Discover the characters act and thereafter

So how do you know when your marriage is over? If you had seen the signs point to them and not act to prevent it? Or did you already completely blind to the fact that the marriage you once swore that is true to disintegrate? Think a moment to take a long look at your marriage. She could read, in fact on the ground one or two things before you.

There are actually a number of reasons, but most important, that answer the question, how do you knowwhen your marriage is over, happening present communication. All relationships bound by communication without trust can not be identified, they can not be achieved engagement and marriage would be nothing but a dream. Love may be the reason, but the communication is the foundation. No successful marriage can last without it, and if you think that talking about each other's schedule appointments or your children, "representing as effective communication, then you are lost. Tryto restore the connections that you once if you want to save your marriage.

A marriage which should prevent the coalescence of catastrophic end. So how do you know when your marriage is over? They prevent happy for each other, and then quit to be with yourself happy. Somewhere on the road you have forgotten how to dream they are mutually supportive, rather than compete. Compromise had taken a back seat and your goals had changed. It's actually a very common occurrence, butIf you discuss these issues with your partner, you will end up destroying your marriage and you submit to your children, a broken home. Notice the signs, and plan your actions, and who knows, you can manage to improve your marital relationship and your family can save a whole series of traumatic changes.

Tips for Getting Your Man Back in Love With You & rebuilding your marriage

Although it can feel terrible, but the majority of women feel that their men no longer connected with them emotionally at some point or another. In the event that you feel that way, there are always opportunities for your husband back in love with you & rebuilding your marriage. In short, you do not lose hope at this point, because the decline may be seized.

When you are on your husband always in love with you and build your marriage, the first sharpwhat you need to do is get a closer look at your appearance, your behavior and their attitude towards your husband. Have you the way you are, if you married? Where did you lose the love of life, has fun-loving nature, the multi-faceted personality, all of which you are responsible irresistible in his eyes? Why should not the attributes back if you are interested in your husband always in love with you? If nothing else, you immediately draw hisAttention to you and your new and improved himself! Rebuilding your marriage is absolutely possible.

Another good way forever your man is back in love with you, him and make him the value of the center point of your existence. Of course, common sense is always recommended in such situations. Check whether you have been under his kindness, granted for his kind spirit and his good humor. Stop on the tracks, and again in this mode, where you would like to thank him also for thesmallest observation, he shows you respect, or at home. The more you treasure, honor and appreciate him, the closer he comes to you emotionally.

Make him feel comfortable with you, and he would come back feeling reconnected with you. You can not really spelled it in so many words for a long time - but do not call him once in a while just to say that you were thinking of him and expect him early for dinner! These things may be silly at first, but if you truly lovehim and want to renew your marriage, these things properly and honestly. You would your husband always much easier on you in love & rebuilding your marriage. If you believe that your marriage is worth saving to himself ... They should fight for it!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Arbitrarily Bednaya Nastya - ep 82 (full) [Part 1] (English and subtitles)

? Olga: I'll tell him about my feelings. Can you imagine how happy will he be? Anna: Yes, I think. Olga: Do you promise me you wont tell my secret. You are in love. You must understand me. Vladimir: Good day! You changed your mind? Is that a costume ball? Mary Alexander explains that he thought about their future marriage. Maria tells her fiancé, a story about a young princess, the cake went to buy some cookies. ... Бедная Настя серии BednayaPoor Nastya episodes ...



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Tuesday, December 22, 2009

I do not Accept with him? Allies; Jemi Movie, Chapter 4

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Monday, December 21, 2009

Interview w / CeCe Winans and husband Alvin Love (Pt.3)

Alvin Love & CeCe Winans are interviewed on the "TCT" Network about their relationship to each other and God. Enjoy & be blessed!



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Sunday, December 20, 2009

Their care is vital in marriage


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A relationship as sacred as the marriage must be maintained so that it will take a long time. This is the reason why a man and woman should find ways and means to the relationship strong. Being married does not mean that about your feelings for each other smugly.

Do you have the best to prevent your relationship from becoming stale too. Show your love in a multitude of possibilities and let your spouse know how much you want to work your marriage. There are manyWays that you can maintain your marriage, whether they still together or miles apart.

Keep the peace. After a peaceful relationship is a blessing, but because life is not perfect, conflict must be done. What is essential, describes some of these problems. Both should be for peace as often as possible, because if you want peace and peace between you and your partner, you can get on with your life without much stress.

Communication often.Maintain an open line of communication because it is an effective means of resolving issues that may harm your relationship. Constant communication is the key to building a strong marital bond. It enables you to things that are important to both of you, like your feelings, plans and dreams for your family and allows you to get to know each other to discuss more deeply.

Stay committed. Marriage means a lifelong commitment of stay together through good times and bad times as well as in the disease andin health care. Marriage is holy, and because you promised before God and people who love each other for all eternity, it is also appropriate that you keep the vow by the fidelity. Show your love to each other, respect each other and looking for interesting ways to get in touch.

You accept the charges applied. Couples understand that marriage should be and give and take relationship. However, it is also important to accept that this idea can often be uneven. It isnot always true that all is fine in love, and so often, you must be willing to give more than you get.

Show your interest. Even if you try do not like your spouse's hobbies or sports activities, your interest to them to show if you can. It can be difficult to do this part, but your spouse will look really, if you go with him or her as if she goes shopping or he goes to a football game to see live.

Avoid competition. Your spouse isYour better half and your constant companion. In other words, they should complement each other and not compete against each other. If in a society, for example, is confident about yourself and be a good listener. However, if you believe that you will be seated in the back seat of your husband, let him know how that come when you go home.

Seek help if needed. Sometimes, because of the difficult tests, the couples encounter in their married lives, they tend to easilygive up on their partner. But this should not be the case, as the problems are solved. Are you talking with your partner on external consultants, if you can not solve on their own. Both should be ready to do so. You can choose from more professional or spiritual counseling.

Remember, a relationship must be well maintained to make it grow and endure for many years, and it takes two to tango.

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Saturday, December 19, 2009

Five secret of a happy marriage - to agree on money matters

The following seven secrets very well for more than 22 years worked in my marriage and also for many other couples. Follow them, their adaptation to their own in your marriage work, and you will be on your way to what we want it all - a happy marriage to be!

1. Communicate

2. Learn the needs of the other

3. Learn to resolve conflicts

4. Grow with each other

5. Agree on money matters

6th love and respect

7.Maintain a commitment to marriage

Agree on money matters

One of the main causes of arguments and conflicts in the marriage is because a difference in the perception of money and be processed. The real question was never about money per se. Fights about money are rarely about the money first. The fight is only a manifestation of more general issues in the relationship and what each brings the money in terms of settingMoney.

We bring to our marriage, our own individual money funds paradigm or blueprint. The problems, both financially and psychologically, that even playing in the simplest disagreement about money, are more than enough to lead to tensions. Ask yourself the following questions to be determined to be the source of the money blueprint and the possible conflict of money you are responsible for your wedding:

Are you a savings or donors who have money and style to marry you?

Whatmean money to you - freedom, security, adventure and power, will be provided?

How were you raised have to deal with money talk about money?

Trust your partner to make a good financial decisions, or do you feel the need to keep things under control?

What does the word lifestyle does this mean for you and your spouse?

From the above list, consider your attitude toward money and your spouse. It can, with understanding of tax law and investment controlStrategies, whereas old is your partner, just frugal. Both are important skills and both are necessary in today's economy.

Therefore, rather than criticize your spouse for his lack of 401 (k) know-how, you may very important in the long run to celebrate the family's financial success, the fact that your partner is frugality is exactly what gets your family will be able to debt right now. Both are important for you to connect your financial strengths and preferences set to choose apromote the fight against the costs that you face now and in the future.

Another strategy to avoid "money fights" is like a financial unit of thought. More importantly, try to stop thinking like two and start thinking and acting like one.

You need to a set of shared goals and hopes and agree on some shared values. You can always values held by your spouse have differing opinions, but you need to see eye to eye on certain aspects of your financial life so that yourPriorities are aligned and balanced.

Finally, do not let fights fester for money. There is no question about the need for money to live the life you want to live. But about what you choose to be cautious about the fight. If a knock-down-money fight for a $ 50 purchase really necessary? Bad feelings and perhaps the distrust is guaranteed. What does it cost?

Next: six secrets of a happy marriage: love and respect

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Chirunavu Telugu Comedy Movie part 10 English subtitles

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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Rutti - Jinnah

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Interview w / Mark Gungor - 2 of 3

Hosts Matt & Laurie Crouch interview, the incredibly funny (and wise) Pastor Mark Gungor, creator of the new TV series "Love, Marriage and stinking Thinking". He is also the author of "Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage" (Simon & Schuster, 2008), a book based on his phenomenally successful seminar and years of work with thousands of couples in marriage counseling. (www.LaughYourWay.com) --------------------------------------- Mark Gungor is the Senior Pastor of Celebration ...



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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Average time to date before marriage


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"The average amount of time off from any relationship. This can range from months to years, but it is not the same amount of time for everyone because each relationship is different."

"You can not be one months time frame to make a decision of a lifetime. In fact, one year is not enough time to make an election will impact you for the rest of your life, and in every aspect of making your life .

"... Will depend on if you both agree, and then clear theResponsibility to ensure that both are struggling. "

Marriage is a synonym for permanent. It is suppose to be with one person for life.

Unfortunately, modern culture has to change its meaning, because they have devalued their purpose. We always see people in a few months married, and at the end in divorce a few years if the marriage is probably to the death to be.

If we look at the wedding of his realistic point of view, it is probably the most important relationship in theA person's life. It means for men and women become the best of friends. It means most of your deepest and most intimate moments with those you love while you live to share.

Marriage means to share your life with other people. For two to one.

A decision of this magnitude must be reviewed and considered before taking action. "Because if the marriage is the only way, either through death or divorce, and both are hard decisions to leave theterrible scars. "And are able to produce scars, divorce and death are literally life changing.

Marriage is a relationship with him is the highest level possible without having to take look around. Therefore, the average duration is to be made before the marriage must also be considered.

However, the average length of advertising is not the only factor that must be considered.

The other factors are:

-How much confidence there is inRelationship
-The health of the relationship itself
-The duration of both partners
Economic opportunities
-The admission of family members

As you can see, it's not just about the average wait from the time before the proposal. The point is, if the right conditions are met to take things to the highest level. And that's what a friend and girlfriend relationship helps us to discover.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Pocahontas - Assignment 1 / 8

Ratcliffe, who believes the "savages" are hiding the gold he expected to be plentiful, and Powhatan, who believes these pale newcomers to destroy their land, Smith and Pocahontas have a difficult time preventing all-war, and save their love for each other. In 1607, a ship, the British settlers of the Virginia Company sails for North America in search of gold and other tangible goods. Aboard Captain John Smith, and Governor John Ratcliffe. A storm erupts, and Smith saves ...



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Sunday, December 13, 2009

Marriage Counselor: with Anger

Anger can be very destructive in a relationship. It can also have negative consequences, whether they are displaced or traded. A marriage counselor must seek effective methods to deal with the issue of anger for couples in their efforts to develop a loving, supportive and lasting relationship.

When anger is expressed, it can leave the person at the other end of the feeling traumatized, even if there is no physical violence. An interestingPhenomenon that shows the person who feels the anger were also attacked. This is due to the functioning of the unconscious, provides that all actions directed against itself. Therefore, if we cause pain to our partners, we also do us harm themselves. It then follows that the anger has a definite negative impact on a relationship. Partners simply have a hard time about intimacy because their security is threatened.

Suppressed anger can be just as devastatingAnger expression. Often, repression may lead to an empty marriage, especially if one is anger turned inward and manifests itself as depression. One example will serve to illustrate this point. Suppose that a person had an older sibling is very rebellious and hostile in his youth and as a result was punished more severely. Punishing the individual associated with expression of anger and therefore suppressed anger and hid them from theirParents and later in life, from her spouse.

The same individual ended up in the role of the "good child" in childhood, who never raised a fuss about nothing. These served a purpose in childhood, but later in life, this adjustment has been very damaging to a marriage. The constant hiding of anger extended to a person feeling that they must suppress their sexuality and other forms of excitement, because this increased activity energy and feltthreatening.

The internalization of anger in the depression of the individual partners left feeling dissatisfied and looking for fulfillment of desires outside of marriage. A marriage counselor could do, again, to express the suppressed individual in touch with their anger and pain and in a meaningful way to provide a supportive environment to help.

It is often difficult for people to deal with their hidden anger and pain. For most of us, we have learned that during childhoodAnger is a bad thing, and we were punished or criticized. We were with the option to express them and suffer the consequences or her to the house where it does not hurt us or someone else, keep left. But when we decided to dampen our anger, we chose dampen our ability to love, because love and anger are two sides of same coin. They are both for our vital energy or life force are related. When we feel love is our life force grows, and when we rage, we feelExperiences of our life energy as truncated or stunted.

Anger is therefore an essential expression of our vital energy, and if we suppress them, we become depressed or to live a pale, muted existence. However, we are responsible to ourselves and hurt others if we act on our anger. Containment is a process that allows us to our anger without hurting our loved ones release. A therapist can help to unleash a person's anger in small, controlled amounts in a secure environment and help them backgive back to its original, positive, life-form.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Bring The Love And The Life Back Into Your Marriage

Psychologists can open the lines of communication. In the long run, good communication is the key to a successful financial and family planning. Couples get caught in a trap and have no idea how to get out. A partner is irritable and quarrelsome. Couples therapy allows you and your spouse to discuss issues in a neutral context. Often times we are so close to the situation that we lose our perspective.

Communication, verbal and non-verbal is an essential maritalNutrient. A therapist who specializes in marriage counseling can be helpful when finding the pair, it is difficult to start and maintain healthy communication. Communication can be a healthy way to resolve their arguments. Communication enables a relationship to grow and thrive by sharing your spouse the opportunity to express their hopes, needs, dreams, sorrows, hopes and everyday life together. Communication problems in relationships. Try it a habit to discuss what you saw inTV or read in the newspaper.

Marriage counseling can help you build your communication and intimacy skills. Through marriage counseling you will learn to apply new policies or changes to your old strategies. Marriage has its ups and downs and sometimes you get on how to work a little confused. Jobs, children and other tasks to also make it difficult to concentrate on each other and sometimes marriage routine instead of a happy, healthy and loves, isRelationship, and you see your spouse and you may be prior to a possible divorce situation, but you really love your spouse and want to save your marriage. Marriage can be very hard for everyone. Men and women constantly fighting over this and that and nothing is ever reached.

Divorce and lawyers should be your last resort. Not sure what was the problem that got you and her. Divorce is a one-way door, filled with wounded. You don? T know all the miseryUntil you go through the door, and then you can not put the pain back into the envelope.

Relationships between different stages and either wither or the onset of time. Couples in a troubled relationship or marriage to know whether the marriage is worth it will give up, or. Relations are similar to this one. At the beginning we did not know each other very well, and are not carrying around resentments from past interactions with each other.

Marriagethis is not about, it's about give and take and exchange. If you love someone, you should want them to be happy. Marriage is like a guitar. The partners are like strings, each of different sounds. Marriage counselors help many married couples work through their problems and differences, often with positive results.

Love is a verb, which measures how care can be defined by someone else who needs more than his own. It may take some time, but acan be seen that no matter how angry he or she is about the current circumstances, someone shows love is more like a repeat of love. Love is the greatest return on investment.

Marriage tips to get you your relationship Healthy

Marriage Tip No. 1 - Development of intimacy in the relationship

If there is no intimacy in a marriage, husband and wife against each other and sensitive. Couples who make no intimacy in their relationship no effort to meet each other, they are self-centered and selfish. As a rule, in bitterness towards each other and there is no evidence of a society. The result is usually the ongoing conflicts and struggles, arguments and Abuse.

If you want your relationship to be successful, you must maintain the intimacy. It is not hard to know when a couple is intimate, it seems only with the ray through it. Intimate couples tend to go hand in hand, laughing in conversation closely together, open and vulnerable with each other, and looked into his eyes. You can among them the true meaning of love and affection. They do not focus on each other's weakness, but on the strength of the focus of their > Marriage while working on the weakness.

You can show intimacy through gestures of love, show your spouse that you are showing and that you appreciate your spouse and to appreciate them. Intimacy is not to criticize, of course not to your spouse, but the building of confidence shown by the spouse who is interested in the things that your spouse passion.

To achieve this level of intimacy, however, begins with a love for God. If youFind> Dear God, just try it to love your spouse, you will not find it difficult to love your spouse as Christ loved the church. Christ loved the church so much that he was willing to lay down his life for his church to bottom - this is the level of love and intimacy in our marriages, we should be objective.

In order to achieve intimacy in your marriage, you must also love and accept themselves. You can love only love your neighbor as much as you yourselfSo if you do not love me how to love and be intimate with your partner? You begin to love yourself with the knowledge that you are created in the image of God and that you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

Marriage Tip No. 2 - Do you have a plan for resolving conflicts

Are bound in marriage, there are conflicts because of differences between spouses. The problem is not really, but the conflicts, how to deal with them. It is also advisable totry to better understand your spouse, so that over time, conflicts can be avoided.

Conflicts arise when we sometimes make false assumptions about our spouses. We will respond to our false assumptions based on our spouse end up hurt. Instead of which it must strive to understand drag the entire situation by proper communication against premature conclusions. This would have a significant decrease in the amount of conflict.

Even when avoiding conflicts with reference to the errors and conflictsthe past. Referring to past problems can only hurt your spouse and make matters worse, avoid being able to do so. According to previous issues are dead, there's no need to revive it. God himself, if he forgives us, it never brings up again. He says that he represents our sins in the sea of forgetfulness.

Even if disagreements arise trying to solve them and not win an argument. It is not really prove that you are right, but their remedy the situation. At the end of the day, if you winan argument with your partner, who are you going to announce the victory? Moreover, it is better to lose a fight than to lose your relationship.

Be willing to apologize and make-up first, even if you feel that your spouse has one, that is wrong - it shows that you are the bigger person and payable if you are doing. It will help you to resolve conflicts more quickly than if you're waiting for your spouse to make the first move - you end up not talking to each other for days orWeek also. Is it really worth it?

Friday, December 11, 2009

Marriage Help - The empathy test

Compassion is the lifeblood of the families. Failure of Compassion is the "heart disease" emotional life of a family.

Compassion contributes greatly to happiness in intimate relationships, as does the love. Relations can with little love and a high degree of compassion happy, but not vice versa.

Why is compassion so necessary for love relationships? For one thing, it sensitized you to the individuality and the vulnerability of your loved onesOnes. It makes you see that your partner is a person other than you, with its own set of experiences, a different temperament, different weaknesses, and in some respects different values. In contrast, when the intensity of love, without compassion, you can not see who he or she really is. Your partner will only be a source of emotion for you, rather than a separate person in her own right. If you feel comfortable, is your partner on a pedestal. If you are feeling bad, he / shebecomes a demon.

Compassion, on the other side makes you the protection, but rather than controlling. The difference is crucial. If you are a safeguard, you want your partner to achieve what is best for him or her help. If you're controlling, you want him or her feel bad for not doing what you want.

For the kind of compassion that saves your emotional well-being and your relationships to reach you deep enough in improved under ego, resentments have, and hurt on the part of your touchKnow better spirit to grow, create, appreciate and connect with all the goodness in other people want, and you do not have enough compassion to shame those who have not learned how to tighten it up again.

An important way to examine your personal and health of your relationship is good to determine your level of compassion.

Useful to test the compassion.

Portrait of a Marriage (1990) (TV) Assignment 01-02

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Thursday, December 10, 2009

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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

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Monday, December 7, 2009

Immigration: Love, Marriage and the GreenCard Peerally Shah, Esq.


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Marriage is certainly a very important concept, and the body in the United States and, as such, Congress must ensure that a foreigner who marries a United States citizen spouse has an immediate opportunity for a permanent preference file under the first category. It is good to know that a permanent residents (green card holders) may file a marriage petition but the wait time for the priority day is long, and therefore do not give directAbility of recipients to receive a green card.

The first consideration in cases of marriage is that marriage must be (in good faith, literally "good faith") or a marriage is not for the purpose of immigration benefits only. A good marriage is the belief in the intention of the bride and groom to a life together at the time, testified that she had been married to establish. The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) formerlyINS ( "Immigration"), has different criteria for determining if a marriage was registered in good faith. These include but not limited intermingling of assets, joint lease, joint financial responsibility, and pictures. It is generally accepted that a couple knows the intimate affairs of each other. Therefore, it is very important to present the marriage document to you to prove your bona fide relationship. It is imperative that a person does not respond a fraudulent marriage. A fraudulent marriage is both the petitioner (for U.S. citizens to punish spouses) and the recipient (the person) of the benefits and could even result in criminal charges, including jail time. While immigration does not detect fraudulent marriages, they will recognize an arranged marriage, as long as it is registered in good faith.

To file a marriage petition, you should have a valid marriage. A valid> Marriage is one that is recognized in the state in which it takes place. For example, if Ram goes to Anita, and moves in Nevada, married in California, the marriage will be recognized by the Immigration Department. However, when Ram and Anita are cousins, first, Nevada does not recognize the marriage and thus immigration will not recognize this marriage. This is very important because you might not this fact until you know your file petitions with the Immigration. Alsoif the marriage takes place, for example, the Fiji Islands will recognize the immigration of marriage, as long as the marriage is recognized in Fiji. Note that a proxy marriage is not recognized. A proxy is a marriage, if not meet the bride and groom on the day of the wedding. The exception to this rule is if the marriage after the proxy marriage was consummated.

Once married, the documents can be processed either in the United States,if the recipient (the receipt of green card) is processed in the United States or abroad will be able through the U.S. Consulate. During the processing of cases abroad, you can opt for a K3 visa in order to reduce the waiting time. Even if no marriage has taken place not bring, you can even his fiancee on a K1 visa. The visas are only for U.S. citizen petitioners. On the other side, so the marriage will be processed in the United States, (aProcess called adjustment of status), the recipients in the United States entered legally but only for a day. That is, the person should be chosen over the United States on a valid visa. If you are registered with the crossing of the border, out of luck if they benefit from a provision under INA 245 (i). This provision is necessary if any type of petition in favor of the beneficiaries was on or before 30 April 2001 submitted. There are many requirements to prove that you benefit from this provisionthe law. You need to speak to an experienced attorney about your case. Although you run for your visa, you will definitely need an immigration attorney before you speak to proceed with any kind of case.

During the adjustment of status process, you should not leave the United States when you file and receive an approved reentry / parole to enable. You should know that a parole or reentry permit is to be no guarantee of entry into the United States. This can only be on a boardPlane and arrive at the entry to the U.S., where an official of the Immigration Department if you will not be allowed in the U.S. or. If you have more than 180 days has expired on your visa before applying for a green card, you should not rely on any case, the United States. In fact, you will be subject to a 3 years bar. This bar will prevent the person is not only back in the U.S., but also in obtaining permanent residence. At this point can only help a liberation. It is important toGood to know that the waiver is not easy to get. If you run more than 365 days prior to the application, you should not leave, because his this time, in which a bar 10 years. The same rule as the bar is 3 years with the exception of the bar is used for 10 years and the waiver is getting much more difficult.

If you file petition for your marriage, you will be called for fingerprinting and an interview within 3 to 8 months if the papers properly filed. They shouldParticipation in this interview with your spouse and proof that your marriage is bona fide (good faith). At this point, it is highly advisable to take a lawyer with you during these interviews. Be allowed, in fact a licensed attorney to sit with you in conversation. If the contracting officer is satisfied with the interview, and the vetting is completed, he or she will tell you that he or she will issue a response soon. You can get an answer in the next week that yourCase was approved and a letter welcoming you to the U.S. as permanent residents.

On the other hand, if replaced by immigration or admission proves that is the case, fraudulent, you can be arrested on the spot. At this point, are highly recommended to keep silent until your lawyer is present. In another case, if the officer is not satisfied, you may be called for another interview or they could refuse your case. Technically, shall be denied if it will give you one months agoReferring the case to the Immigration Judge. In this way, your attorney may, where appropriate, to include a way to file the case again. If that fails, the case in immigration court are invoked. The immigration judge will review the case de novo (again) and a determination. That means you have to prove your case or the government has to prove that your marriage was not bona fide. Again, it is highly advisable to take an experienced attorney to move in such cases.

Ifthe case is accepted, the recipient will be granted when a conditional residence was issued at the time the green card marriage less than two years. You should check whether you have a conditional residence. Usually a conditional residence Green Card have an expiry date of 2 years from the date of issue. You must remove the conditional residence status 90 days after the second anniversary of issue of the green card by filing a Form I-751 to. It isessential to the removal file otherwise your status will be terminated. Normally, if you still married to your spouse is a U.S. citizen, you will file a joint petition to remove such conditions. Is, if you can prove your marriage was bona fide, you will receive a permanent residence for 10 years about 6 months after filing of Form I-751st If immigration has reason to suspect foul play, they will launch an investigation and there could even say: You and your partner for removalof conditional residence interview. If they are satisfied, they will grant you unconditional permanent residence. If not they will refer the case to an immigration judge.

The question is what happens if there is a separation or divorce before or during the 90 days preceding the anniversary of the expiry of the conditional greencard. The following are few potential scenarios.

Divorce finalized prior to filing the removal of conditional residence.

In this case, one needs to file the removal of conditional residence waiver (Form I-751) even if the marriage has not reached two years. You will be required to prove that your marriage was entered in good faith and the marriage was not terminated through your fault. The process will follow typically the same path as when you file the case jointly with your wife;
Two years anniversary of the conditional green card has come to term and the divorce is not finalized. In this case, you will need to get the divorce finalized as soon as possible so that you can file the Form I-751 waiver; and
You were able to file your joint petition of removal of conditional residence and during this time your marriage is facing troubles and you separate and intent to divorce your spouse. You need to inform the USCIS and wait for the final divorce decree and file a Form I-751 again.

There are numerous other permutations of situations regarding the removal of conditional residence namely abusive US citizen spouses, or hardship situations. You should speak to your attorney regarding your particular case.

There are other provisions under the law to protect beneficiaries namely in case of abuse by US citizen spouses. In case, one is abused by his/her citizen spouse, one will be eligible to file for VAWA (Violence against Women Act) protection. Note that VAWA can be used in favor of man also. There are also situations where the US citizen spouse dies before the case is approved.

Because VAWA and other exceptional cases are very unique cases. We will try to cover them in our next article.

And remember, it is highly recommended to speak to an experience licensed attorney before filing any kind of immigration case.

The information contained in this article is provided for informational purposes only, and should not be construed as legal advice on any subject matter. No recipients of content from this article, clients or otherwise, should act or refrain from acting on the basis of any content included in the article without seeking the appropriate legal or other professional advice on the particular facts and circumstances at issue from an attorney licensed in the recipient's state. Shah Peerally is the managing for the Law Offices of Shah Peerally located in Fremont CA. The law office focuses on Immigration Law.
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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Love and Marriage - relationship problems? Redefine infidelity

Whether it is a question of the relationship, in love and marriage, I expect my partner to be completely loyal to me --- mentally, spiritually and physically, of course. My definition of perfect love and romantic relationship that my partner or spouse, not even when the views of someone else with appreciative eyes, not to speak, think Expressing its appreciation for the person. It is fraud. It is an act of infidelity. I have the divorce.

I am themost beautiful man or woman in the world. My partner need to love me and me alone. He must remain shackled to my beauty. Mine is the most delicious, sumptuous, delicious and rich dish ever made and he should eat every day, without asking for a change. He should never get bored with it.

This is perhaps the most universal human nature, especially in matters of love and marital relations. We are all hyper-possessive.

Although we are conscious that this change isthe law of nature, we can not allow this law to operate in the case of our partners in love.

The truth is that it is difficult to remain in the same state of mind. The intensity of the passions of love at first sight, the subsidies over time awakened degenerate monotony and boredom. It is very human. It is only natural.

When we understand, to allow for this basic human need for change in our love relationships and marriage and a certain degree of personal freedom,Most mistakes in love relationships or marriages result in divorce can be avoided.

The problem with most of us, however, that although we are well aware of this human reality in love and marital relationships, we can not solve our desire for ownership and feel hurt when our partner seems to act as a natural man.

Let us know that no body can drive daily and eat in different restaurants. No body can continue to vacation, cruiseor exceed the limits of flying. They feel there bored. In fact, you get more easily bored, while you stay a little longer. You can at home sick and feel like coming back home with greater intensity.

Compare the peace, comfort, sincerity and simplicity of your sweet home out with the artificiality of business relationships. In fact, the home appear more starts sweet, if only we may go once in a while are.

But this can only happen if thePartners in love can a little space or freedom for change in the relationship. What is true is that each one feels bored with the same situation and wants a change. It does not mean that you will not enjoy the same dish when served again after an interval of time. Can his taste, his longing to be borne in mind as well as more fun than ever before. Let's admit openly what we know is true in our hearts. This possessiveness is often the cause of stress in ourRelations.

Let's change our psychology and redefined the concept of breach of trust and true love. Let's go to dare to bare our hearts and help alleviate stress and anxiety.

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Saturday, December 5, 2009

Marriage Counseling Calgary - Rekindle the flame of love in your marriage

Common reasons are common among couples. Although most couples soon be reached in harmony and enjoy a happy relationship. But things are out of hand, when frequent conflicts and share a feeling of emptiness for the relationship. Herein counseling Calgary is your only recourse to resolve their marital disputes. It helps you transform your hopeless unsatisfactory relationship with a satisfying, supportive and dedicated commitment.

Although it is not easy to mend conflicts, but wellConsulting aims to determine the strength of the relationship. It is the strength in the bonding of the needy children who made their way to better facilitate daily conflicts. It enlivens the spirit dampened their relationship. The romance is kindled between them, they bring even more closely. Forgiveness is another skill that is taught by consultants for the needy children. This paves the way but in a happy marriage.

However, it is not easy to be for the couple totogether even after marriage counseling programs. Still, they provide a solution to your problems, the rest is your determination to mend your mistakes and to be together. Once you become a happy couple again, you find that which is with one another the greatest happiness that life has offered. The eternal bond in common, then certainly worth emotional turmoil that you have been subjected to before and during marriage counseling.

The increase in the divorce rate has nowwas a warning about the serious consequences of misunderstandings in marriage some couples. So before you start to another couple, in this all-time high divorce rate figure, why not one last chance to add to fix the marriage problems that are a problem in your relationship foundation?

Couples marriage counselor in Calgary to teach the strategies to deal with marital problems with an adequate account of the perspective of both partners. This gives them a key to a happy marriage.Couple counseling sessions in Calgary when he repaired your relationship with the communication, care, love and respect for one another promotes the partner. . Unity, mutual respect and goals in life to enable couples to overcome the boredom in their marriage. They develop intimacy, warmth and comfort in a foreign company soon after they successfully passed on to the proposals in psychology programs in Calgary, worked.

So, just walk the extra mile, and take one last chanceMarriage counseling with Calgary. Who knows, even your marriage, as with other flowers? Loosen the daily problems and go home again to go hand in hand. Relive the loving moments you spent together, the solution for a happy and contented married life. It's just a question of the right initiative. Divorce or counseling, are the only two options you have.

Friday, December 4, 2009

Here We Go Again A Nemi Story Arranged Marriage () Episode 15

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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Dating, Romance, Love and Marriage - How to Meet the Right Man

When meeting the right man seems to be a problem, then you might not be enough about it. But the last thing you want is to another lowly and desperate someone who wishes that they are noticed or perhaps, get married soon. Nevertheless, one can still increase your chances of meeting your Mr. Right at the same time, not as if you are desperate or wait for him for a lifetime. Here are some tips:

Do you know what you want. Find Your Mr. Right is notwill have to as hard if you know what you want. Consequently, not be concerned if your settings are always to be distinguished over the years. Trust your instincts. If you do not force the feeling the connection with someone, you do not happen there.

Do not confuse between Mr. Right and Mr. Available. Going out with the first man who asks, should not a problem. The fact there is nothing wrong making. But do not consider him as "one", which will take you from theLoneliness of the "single world". Mr. Right and Mr. Frei is not the same. Each individual making could be a potential partner, but not all of them with your own criteria. Do you know the difference.

Be patient. Finding the right man is not a competition. Finding a partner is not mandatory does not therefore compete with your friends if they are all with their partners. Do not be jealous of your friends when they all of their data when you need to go. Rushing is never a good thing, especially when itcomes to the relationship. Search, but be patient. Look But look closely.

Stick with your Lord is not incorrect. Not because you are someone out means that you have found the right man. If you believe that your current relationship is going nowhere but down, throw it away. Implementing an additional luggage will never help you meet your Mr. Right to be successful.

Expand your circle of friends. Stay in touch with your friends and those you introduce your friends. A socialHub if you must. Create activities to as many friends as you could ask. Use email, social sites, birthday cards, phone calls and meet new friends.

Join volunteering. You can not be a pro-bono type of person, but try this activity to meet new friends. Why? Positive energy among people in volunteer work sparks simply good entertainment. Men would naturally like women who are willing to jeans and a plain shirt and watch his hands dirty for a good cause. TryChoose a volunteer work, the interests of the people prefer sports and outdoor activities.

Sit down and life on coffee bars. Sit on a couch, read your book, and drink coffee: 3 things have to invite at the coffee bar, to have someone to sit with you. Men forget to hang coffee bars to relax and work and money, even for just a few minutes and when someone reads a book they're reading now see it is so easy to start a conversation.

Hang out at sports bar in the course of the gameNight. If you love sports and would really like to see banned people on your knowledge in the sport, then you definitely need to hang on sports bar during the game night. You will definitely have to give a male-dominated area, where some of your mind in the context of industrial and after intense moments.

Join a group dominated by men. Are men naturally love the sport, but if football is not your thing, then you can try out, golf, basketball, badminton or other sports that interest you. Now, ifSport is definitely not on the "love-to-do" list, then remember the words, "if you can not beat 'em, join' em". Sport where you can find are men. The good thing here? Men are for women who have an interest in sports or at least try to love what they love shares attracted. Whether you know how to putt a golf ball or not, people are more than willing to forget their disability and to help you make your first shot.

Use these tips and you will increase your successMeeting the right man

Marriage - Self-Care and remembrance of the Good Stuff


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Are you finding yourself irritated with your spouse lately? If you have problems to remember why you love these people - or why they even married in the first place? You are not alone!

Ramona consulted with me because this is exactly what had happened in their marriage.

"When Randy and I met for the first time we had a wonderful time together. We could talk about everything. We are passionately in love, but now I can not even remember what I> Love about him. "

"Ramona, how long you're married and how long it has been so in your marriage?"

We have been married for 7 years. We have two children. Our daughter is 5 and our son is 3 I think this is more or less going on, since our daughter was born. "

"As you can see Randy as a father?"

"He's a very good father. And he is a very loving husband. I do not understand why I feel this way."

"Ramona, what do you do to find yourselfFocusing on more than Randy? What do you know about anger? "

"Ah, I am irritated when he feels insecure about the work, or if he is tired and in need with me, or if he is complaining about something."

"Ramona, now I want to focus on, what about Randy wonderful. Aside, what you like and not only concentrate on what you do not like. I would love to hear what's wonderful about Randy."

"Randy is a very good person. He is so kind and caring. He would do anything for meand for the children. He is very smart and is a very talented musician and composer. Even though he is sometimes unsure because he loves his work and has led to success. He has a great sense of humor. And he takes good care of themselves physically, at which I know really appreciate.

"You know what I talk about him, I realize that I was not thinking about these properties in a long time. I have the focus on the problems, instead of his good qualities."

Has "Right, and this causesYou lose your feelings of love for him. I wonder if you have been concentrating on the problems, because it does not give you a way to take care of you complain when he is in need or a feeling? Is there a way to janitor him and give him when he is insecure or needy?

"Yes, I listen to him if I did not do anything and then I'll try to fix it. That's when I do. Annoy So, what should I do if he is, how?"

"What would you do if you focusin the admission of loving himself rather than his caretakers? "

"I could only go in the other room and read a book! But would not that selfish and unkind to him?"

"Be no, it is not love, enable it to him in the arms and complain. Her caretakers will not help him learn to play better for his own feelings. If you solve affectionately when he was not taking care of themselves, give him an opportunity to take responsibility for themselves. It is the opposite of selfish - it is responsible! "

"Wow, I never saw them this way! So, if every time he complains or acts needy or insecure, I go away and do something, I do not like it, then I am not angry with him feel. I can see that if I take care of myself, it is much easier for me to remember what I love about him. "

Ramona by e-mail me a few days later that things were completely turned around in her relationship with Randy. She was glad that she felt her again> Love for him, and it was noted that this also affects the behavior of their children. They were much calmer than they even happier!

Monday, November 30, 2009

Marital problems - Do You Really Trust Your Spouse?


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Do you really trust your spouse? Does your spouse have? Trust These are very difficult questions for many spouses. On the other hand, some blatantly spouses their spouses to know how they feel about this marriage issue. We've found that when trust is lacking in a marriage of love and commitment that should be either missing or present tense.

Let us consider these two points:


So the man thinks he is
In the story above, we seewhere John Mary because of the trust, what had happened with his parents. However, if you are with your spouse and you see someone who seems to be better than his, you feel threatened?

Are you worried that he can take a look at it and fall for them or they can steal it? Well, then you can in the same batch of people who do not trust their spouse.

Think about it, perhaps the reason why you think that these things, because what you want to do or would do. Much of the time the man deceives the woman and revolves around the suspicion of infidelity of the woman.

As the saying goes, "so a man thinketh, so is he." The Bible also suggests that it is from the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks. Therefore, it is in us before it comes out.



Trust is a two way street
If love is the currency in which marriage is the trust of the wallet to carry it. If you have money, put it in your wallet or purse. So it is with love, if you> Love should you want the confidence that you love.

There is nothing more stressful than a combined spouse who does not trust his partner. Every action or word would be decomposed to determine whether it is a betrayal.

Trust must go both ways. You can not expect to pick up every day to go do your own thing, late at night, on weekends, not including your spouse and do not communicate your whereabouts to come, but expect your spouse to trust them. Then, if he or she makesthe same thing you are excited and start to have doubts about his loyalty.

As you learn to have confidence in your spouse, you have them always the reason to trust you. Mark and I know what we are doing. This is something that we communicate before leaving in the morning. Actually we plan our week together on the weekend schedule and we are usually together, things alone or with friends.

Mark would make fun of me for always saying: "So, what's the plan." Well, that's his favorite isPhrase. As an both of us, we share everything, and it must not be a secret.

No one can experience a healthy and fulfilling marriage if it suspicious. If you do not censure a legitimate reason for your spouse, then this is an area in your marriage, you must overcome. If not, you will be plagued with a variety of marriage and divorce problems, could one of them.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Jeff Dunham & Walter talks about love and marriage - Spark Of Insanity

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Saturday, November 28, 2009

The wedding of Mr. and Mrs. Don W Price

Our wedding 23rd November 2009. Short but very sweet. Kimberly is and remains the only true love of my life. I am so blessed to be able to call her my wife. ... Bridal Wedding "Family Value"



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Friday, November 27, 2009

How to save your marriage if your spouse does not Love You


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Marriage is an institution that is very beautiful and with many benefits and advantages, but like any form of relationship is complex and therefore require complex thinking. If you have to ask how to save the marriage if spouse does not love you, then this article gives you an idea how to win back the one you love. Although it seems that your partner has lost interest in you or is even completely fallen out of love withYou, there are ways to win it again, do not you get divorced and go through messy processes alone land.

The first thing you want is to show your partner how much you love him or her. Talking to them and tell them how you feel, your feelings, describe in detail, not simply tell them "I love you", as these can often overused, a sentence that will not make much sense, especially if your husband thinks that he or she felt about the lovewith you. Often in a marriage, can begin one of the individuals involved, lose the feeling for the other person because of a lack of excitement within the relationship. You can change this feeling simply by creatively more exciting activities with your spouse, and to be crazy.

If you really want to know how to save a marriage if spouse does not love you, then you need to look inward and ask yourself what you know about this person you love, thentell them to let them know. If you are not even sure why you love her as you can hope for then, perhaps, to persuade them. To remind your spouse about love, the marriage, you must physically and emotionally started taking them back to this time in your relationship when things were better. If you think that something is wrong, then what it was and what options you can go about fixing it.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Can You Love Your Husband Again? Assistance to women to save your marriage

Can you love your husband again if I like you love him? Many women ask this exact question every day when they are married to a man she no longer in love with her. Emotions shift over time and with the pressures of marriage, can the dynamics of a relationship. A woman can still love her husband, but the romantic feelings that they may disappear once for him. You can recapture that romance and passion, if yourThe aim is to save your marriage and keep your family intact.

If you're wondering, you can love your husband again, the fact that at one point that you loved him so much that you intended on spending the rest of your life look to him. Reclaiming these feelings should be your goal when you save the relationship and do you to start him through the same eyes you have always wanted at that time. Life's pressures have a way to distort how we see things, and you mustresentment and anger can cloud your perception of your husband. Make a point of focusing on the qualities of him that you find particularly attractive. What is not in the little things that do not irritate it, you lost. It's those little things that can eventually add up and affect your feelings.

You must also trying very hard to spend time alone with your husband. There is obviously a big difference between a man and woman and his co-parents. When you come to your childrenbetween you and your spouse is the love that you two feel for each other would be overshadowed. Let someone else tend to the two children while you have some time alone. This may mean a weekend or even just an evening picnic at a local park, you really only need a certain period for the two, so you get the man you married once more to know.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Unhappy Marriage: Should You Stay or Leave?


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There is no simple answer to the question I am often asked: "Should I stay in my marriage, even if I'm unhappy, or should I go?" It is impossible to give a "one size fits all" response because every marriage is different.

But there are some general guidelines that can be taken into account when you are in this situation. Use these tips to think about thirteen to your marriage, your energy level, your commitment, and the degree of yourDissatisfaction.

1st Do not give up prematurely. You have time, energy, money, hopes and dreams invested in your marriage. The only way many people can divorce without feeling unduly guilty is to initiate, to know that they have tried everything they could possibly do a better marriage. It makes sense, about how the relationship you now to concentrate better.

2nd Look at your children and how they might impact a divorce.'s Divorcenever easy. Preschool children and children who are still in school is in a way that adult children will be affected, not how possible changes in the schools if a parent moves, possibly with one parent working two jobs to make it financially; the loss of daily contact with both parents, etc.

3rd, if your spouse has an addiction or abusive use all resources and groups that provide aid. Eg if your spouse is an alcoholic, join Al-Anon provides support for the familyMembers, and get your teenage children involved in Alateen, so that they receive the support they need to deal with the home situation. Of course, a top priority, your children safe, so they do not believe in any situation that is dangerous for them.

4th Concentrate on changing, such as yourself, for a better partner and not how to repair "your spouse. If you need to improve themselves and the non-productive habits and approaches, then your spouseThey relate differently. You can move in a normal mode to one another to get the keys in the same way and have always evoke the same reaction. But if you are different from normal reaction, then the interaction between the two of you will change.

5th ongoing support from a consultant, having the questions and know what you by. This gives you the help and support you need to try new things and experiment with new approaches.

6.They consider marriage counseling to encourage your spouse. If finances are a problem, call your local Chamber of Commerce or the mayor's office and ask what agencies in your community offer sliding scale fees on income. Also, some churches, counseling centers and some ministers will offer advice. Do not assume automatically assume that you can not afford counseling.

7th Make sure you depending too much on your spouse to meet your needs or makeYou happy. "Nobody can make you happy, it's an inside job. And not a single person all the needs of others. Therefore, you should be friends, hobbies need, and outdoor activities. Expand your world and see whether that some of the pressure takes place in your marriage.

8th Keep a gratitude journal every day, in which all of what you are thankful for in your life. Every day, try five or six new things to list that have not written to you before. During theDays to realize what happened, this is a blessing: the friendly shop assistant that handles your refund efficiently, with a smile, the parking space that suddenly opens only when you need it, or an unexpected compliment from a colleague.

9th Make a list of positive attributes and contributions of your spouse to your wedding, even things that he or she has done that you appreciate it. Read more about this list every morning and every evening, anchoring these good points in your head. AtAt some point, share your list with your spouse.

10th Make a consistent effort to positive and encouraging. Sandwich any criticism or request for a change in behavior between two compliments. For example: "You are always responsible to mow the yard every weekend. Could you also sweep the grass clippings off the sidewalk?" Thanks for everything you do to help the court looked so good. "

11th Work remains open your heart, is in love with your partner. Itto close slightly emotional when you're angry or hurt. Visualize beams of love or golden light shines from your heart to the heart of your partner. You can do the behavior but still love the person. If you send the energy of the ruling and the criticism to another, the answer will be very different than if you send the energy of unconditional love.

12th Try to get your thoughts, feelings and wishes in a letter to your spouse. There are many Spouses who responded positively to a letter, which are notorious for fine-tuning the spouses verbal pleas for a year. It's a different medium of communication, and it often commands more attention.

13 If you give your marriage you have your best efforts for at least a year and nothing has changed, then ask yourself the famous Ann Landers question: "Are you better with him (or her) or without him?" Life is too short to stay stuck in a miserable"Before year, if you're the only one who wants your relationship will be different. Even at this point, although sometimes with a spouse makes the shock initiation of a legal separation of the other partner finally recognize the gravity of the situation and agree to cooperate in the marriage.

Love Yourself, Love Your Spouse - Make a Difference in your marriage with an Act of Random Kindness

Do you want to make a difference in the world today? Seriously, at the moment?

How often we forget to see aimlessly through the day, take such a simple and pure act? To reach to the world around us and start a chain reaction, the impact that will have far beyond our imagination.

We can put them in our sphere of influence "caught completely off guard, you know, all the people we converse with on a regular basis, the store clerks, bank employees, the vendor in the park, they will notalso come see!

How easy is it? It is almost as easy as breathing, if done properly. Every encounter we have during our day is an occasion for this act of practice. In every encounter, we can find a way to love the individual before us.

Practice gratitude for the service they have provided a moment of good humor and laughter to someone who is having a difficult time on that day. Just love them, only one person occupying a similar place in ourWorld and their contribution to help what it is that they do.

Today in the supermarket, I was a simple truth that I learned years ago recalls. We never know what the person who deals with us next just before that moment. How often have we in line behind someone who we think was just a little too long? We make our decisions at a time yet to assess who we are, too?

Watching you take a moment to breathe deeply and think only kind and lovingThoughts about the person before us. If we had any idea where she was and what they are currently in, we'd probably feel a pure sense of compassion.

We've all been there, a difficult time with a spouse or lover, a bad day at work, maybe a divorce or the loss of a loved one. Our day is not going so well, and the world seems to be conspiring against us.

How does it feel when someone we do not know, throwing a friendly smile in our direction,take something that we dropped, or hand-held port, where we can do? How different it feels if they are in contempt ruling, as it may, our surly mood sense? If our judgments aside, who knows, ask the person sought, we may only set the tone for the next person who could change their faces and also to continue it from there.

The difference is subtle, but growing with time. When we judge, ridicule or otherwise, to show our dissatisfaction with a situation where we do our utmost that the negative energy of thethis moment, and the creation of negatives. When we practice gratitude and forgiveness, it will reinforce the positive and again more of the same to us.

What if today we all decided to embrace our children and tell them we love them? What happens if we say, "I'm sorry" to have someone hurt us? What happens if we wrap our arms around our spouse and tell them how grateful we are to share our lives with them?

What happens if ...?

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

29 weeks pregnant

I Discuss the glucose test and Rhogam shot, and other random stuff:) Have A Happy Thanksgiving! ... 29 weeks pregnant pregnancy vlog expect young love, family, marriage, motherhood newborn baby kicking belly photos pregnant glucose test strips rhogam shot Thanksgiving



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Monday, November 23, 2009

People of faith, Standing on the Side of Love

Unitarian Universalists are the rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer affirmative, and transgendered people since 1970. We support the equality of marriage ... we are proud of the side of love! Music by Jason Shelton, lead vocals by Jeannie Gagne. Music used by permission, Jason Shelton and Yelton Rhodes Music.



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Sunday, November 22, 2009

Man wants out of marriage? Advice for Women


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I've often than marriages in difficulty and offer tips and advice to write, how to overcome these things, even if you are the only one who tried. I also have a blog where I am my own story, as I did. Probably one of the most common request, or e-mails that I receive a request for advice, if a man wants "from the marriage." Now, run these e-mails the glove. Sometimes the man has not really said anything, but has indicated, for example, or acting in such aWay that the woman has a fairly strong feeling or intuition that he has checked out of the marriage. Sometimes the man has said or implied that he no longer "in love" with the woman and thinks that the marriage is over. And write a couple of women and show that her husband has actually seen a lawyer or filed for divorce or has packed his bags and left the house. The advice that I will give, you depend on the situation, but there are a few tips that I canOffering that can help you to save your marriage, no matter which of these are situations you

Do You Know (or you can pinpoint) Why Your Husband Wants Out?: Husbands can be very badly to communicate what they feel and what they really want. Often they are inaccurate or incomplete, you reasons for the review that really does not tell you what you need to know. They are things like "say I'm just not happy" or "I just do not want to get married" or "I justthink it's better that way. "This evasive answers do nothing to save you your marriage, you have to dig deeper.

And sometimes, stress or a crisis situation to be the reason for separation (money problems, infidelity, appears to stress, etc.), but although these things can be pushed over a cliff, your marriage, you have probably already passed in front of an endangered way, with The situation only for the fatal blow. So, once again, you need to go further.

I've alwayspropose you a quiet time, as neither wanted to be sent to you. Put everything on the table, but not combative or argumentative. Talk to your husband that you will agree that there are genuine problems and a real distance in your marriage. Tell him that you accept drastic measures must be taken. Ask your husband if he to share with you why he was so disturbed by your marriage. If he refuses, or if you only more and more vague statements, start patient, hesome instructions. Examples are: "Did you not feel as close as we once were?" or "You are not committed not to the marriage?"

If your husband always starts defensively or too excited to stop, too. The purpose of this is really trying to get real answers and watch your husband's verbal and nonverbal language to its emotional state salary. If he is angry, sad, beaten, detached, or intended? The answer to these questions will give you insight into how you approach your husbandFrom that point on. Of course you need to react differently if your husband is angry when you is when he is sad.

So if your husband React Wants Out But You Do not Want To Let Him Go: Most people who write to me (and most women who want to) read this article in order to save their marriage and want to change her husband. But please understand that the things that try many of us, because (we want this situation to go quickly) to the rear. It isimportant that you always break to help before you decide to act and whether what you are doing or saying, or your marriage and the way that your husband see you hurt. This means that you can not perform, you do not argue in a negative way, you do not make threats you do not have to ask, and you do not behave in any manner that will now appear out of control or unattractive.

Because I know from numerous interviews with men and countless hours of research, what and whoHer husband wants to see now, is the first woman he loved. And she probably your husband's intelligence and wishes respected enough to consider having to pass everything. Could you have always considered the best version of themselves. Show your husband that the woman he once loved is still in front of him.

Show your husband this sound the best version of Yourself: may be counterproductive or illogical, but it really works.You want to be someone who loves her husband more than anything in the world, but respected themselves enough to keep busy and to keep presenting their self-esteem.

The worst situation that you may want to be in the one who wants to save the marriage, but who is capable of second-class citizens. It is very difficult to respect and want someone who does not respect and love themselves. So, as hard as it seems at first glance, you show your husband that you do not hangwhere every word and every movement. Make it very clear that you want to improve your relationship because you are worth more than anything else, but they also show a woman who is busy and lively, are true to yourself and attractive. See send to your friends. Go to the gym. Remove old hobbies. All of these things your man will reach its peak the interest and reaffirm as someone interesting and not desperate and undesirable.

This step is also very important to avoid, because it keeps you from your husband. If he knowsDrag, not all of the desperate hold, there is no need for him to avoid you.

What If You Think It's Too Late To Save Your Marriage? (Note: It is not probable): Often, women tell me, 'Well, I wish I had known this beforehand, because it's too late. My husband is do not see me / take my calls, etc. " Although I have to admit that you probably need to slow down and take small victories at the first step, it is not hopeless. You just have ana little more patience, but you will get there in the same way. By finding out what your husband really wants (probably the first woman he loved, a bit of excitement and more of your attention and time) and offering them at such a distance, that shows that you love and value both your and your husband .

Help Save My Marriage - You Can Love Discover


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One of the most common questions to marriage counselors and psychologists today is "Help save my marriage." With divorce rates at an all time high first marriages and the divorce rate for second marriages than the 70th Percentile, it is no wonder that so people can try to find out what is wrong with their marriages. It is no wonder that so many psychologists are now trying to help to save the marriage.

Alcoholism, drug addiction, pornographyAddiction, physical abuse, meaning that the marriage couple therapy and rehabilitation needs serious work. Whether a person has a problem, or is it shared by both parties, the couple will need therapy. No matter how serious the couple, they can not save themselves for marriage. These problems are too serious to be with by the pair alone mastered.

There are many marriages, however, where the use of "The Golden Rule" serious about improving relations.If you think about what you need to do to save my marriage, you can do this exercise, which many couples who are trying already helped. Do you remember "The Golden Rule" if you were a kid? Do Unto Others as you would to have you.

We all want to be treated properly and your spouse is no different. Use this as a guiding principle in conversation with your partner. Make sure you speak softly and calmly. Be enjoyable, they even in simple things such as greetingsit be nice if they work from home. Do not nag for things - you can ask nicely and then maybe do it yourself. Note that you are working and save your marriage and a minor annoyance is a small price to pay.

If you married this person, she has been true with all your heart, right? In truth, you do too. Unfortunately, all the garbage of life through and has recorded that the air is blown. The chaos can be "cleaned up". You have the answer to the question: "HowI can save my marriage? "Love means putting the other person's feelings before your own, and with time they will do the same.

After all, did not say that you already have everything we have described in this article. It can be a lot of accumulated guilt and pain in a marriage, and that will go in an instant. You must decide that you want to save marriage, and then realize that there is a lot of hard work ahead to repair the damagecaused by the anti-one years. Together with your partner can tell you: "I help my marriage is not saved."