Compassion is the lifeblood of the families. Failure of Compassion is the "heart disease" emotional life of a family.
Compassion contributes greatly to happiness in intimate relationships, as does the love. Relations can with little love and a high degree of compassion happy, but not vice versa.
Why is compassion so necessary for love relationships? For one thing, it sensitized you to the individuality and the vulnerability of your loved onesOnes. It makes you see that your partner is a person other than you, with its own set of experiences, a different temperament, different weaknesses, and in some respects different values. In contrast, when the intensity of love, without compassion, you can not see who he or she really is. Your partner will only be a source of emotion for you, rather than a separate person in her own right. If you feel comfortable, is your partner on a pedestal. If you are feeling bad, he / shebecomes a demon.
Compassion, on the other side makes you the protection, but rather than controlling. The difference is crucial. If you are a safeguard, you want your partner to achieve what is best for him or her help. If you're controlling, you want him or her feel bad for not doing what you want.
For the kind of compassion that saves your emotional well-being and your relationships to reach you deep enough in improved under ego, resentments have, and hurt on the part of your touchKnow better spirit to grow, create, appreciate and connect with all the goodness in other people want, and you do not have enough compassion to shame those who have not learned how to tighten it up again.
An important way to examine your personal and health of your relationship is good to determine your level of compassion.
Useful to test the compassion.
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