Thursday, February 11, 2010

Christian Marriage Advice - Three Ingredients achieve unity in your marriage

Maintain communication communication is meant essentially two things together with what is being said and understand speech. The best way to really understand, your spouse is talking through, what has been called reflective listening.

To reflective listening exercises have your spouse speak what they think and feel about a topic. Next you respond back with statements that begin with something: "Do you mean ..." repeat back their thoughtsin your words. This method will allow your spouse to acknowledge that what you heard was correct. Each of you will gain a better understanding of each other like you two talking about what you mean, and confirm what you hear.

Imagine-a compromise is in the marital relationship are becoming worth the cost? If two people can not agree on something, but to achieve a decision has to be someone in. There are so many problems in marriages that I have witnessed, which must be solvedif a spouse would be clear that the argument to win, it was not worth damaging and their marriage.

The first thought is at an impasse, that if you then give your spouse believe they have the upper hand the whole time. Determining the weight of the question against marriage, and say if you value your marriage over the topic of your spouse, your relationship with them is far more important than the question. Because you love her so much you are willing toCompromises in safety. You will notice that there really die less than you think.

Confirm Commitment-commitment seems to be an elusive word in those days. Almost all obligations appear to have attached a statement of disclaimer on them. I have heard that marriage vows say things like, "I will honor and appreciate you so long as our love to love." How long is the love? It may take until you see someone attractive, exciting, or more money. Is it worth breakingWedding vows?

Commitment in marriage before God created, can be, how I love you and honor you choose, until I die. In the good times and bad, I am yours. I know things happen and people can change dramatically abusive and violent. I do not talk about it. Stay in love, because we choose to love.

1 comment:

  1. A great resource tool for Christian spouses who want to learn to listen reflectively (listen with their heart) is Dick Fetzer's new book "PLEASE LISTEN TO ME! A Christian's Guide to Reflective Listening." It's a valuable how-to book for anyone who wants to learn to share the love of Christ by listening to others.

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