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You can really say that I love him. But you ask yourself: "Am I ready for a lifelong commitment?"
It is not wise to know this only go to the marriage as one that he / she is ready for the commitment. Marriage is a serious matter is that physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual well-being. Divorce rate is high because the 80% of married couples in the marriage just feel that it's all been about "happy, depending on configuration.
Be ready for marriage, you need to know the following:
1. Self-Examination
Examine why you want to get married. Are you looking for relief from a bad situation either at home or at school? Entrusted to a young girl, her partner: "I am so happy when we do. Then I have to get married will have no more to make more decisions!" But instead of reducing your responsibility to marriage, it increases greatly in the way you change the life decisions.
Some have rushed into"Before, without first conducting a" test ". But what "testing" should be done? You should be in your own heart and mind, is to see you are really ready for this lifelong commitment. What are your goals in life? How these will be affected by marriage? They must think we are serious about it, because the responsibilities of marriage can have virtually ruled out certain goals or career.
2 Marriage is work
Many young people do not even"check" the roles of husband and wife. Just like a normal name in a factory, where it has some strange hours, so is marriage. Men and women have their own hours, and out of love for you to add some. For example, a typical teenage bride, I can by her husband: "Now that we're married, the only time he is interested in me when he wants sex. He believes his boyfriends are just as important as I am. I thought Iwould be his only, but I was deceived! "Did her husband to realize that a man thought he would have to stop the role of a single person?
If required to show and it contains a balance of your marriage life, physically, emotionally and otherwise, the financial capital.
3. Maturity is needed
Maturity is more than obvious how to get along with others, primarily those with whom you live. Learning how to handle disagreements without damaging theanother person or your relationship with that one to learn an important lesson. And this takes maturity. By understanding and knowing how, when and where you want an answer to each other.
May, to some, this problem seems like impassable mountains. However, people have matured a different perspective on life in general as a teenager. They have already "climbed a few mountains in life" and emotionally prepared to deal with such problems as that. So you really have put away "thechild-like features "and" understand fully grown in your forces? if you have, you have won at the end of the war.
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