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When the first people to get married, they usually expect that their love and commitment for a lifetime. Unfortunately, for at least one-half of all couples. What happened? Soon after the marriage, couples discover that the bliss of falling in love quickly faded. They no longer see each other through rose-colored glasses. The ease with which it is used to ignore each other's errors more difficult.
Couples start married life with new dealChallenges, tasks and responsibilities. Conflicts arise, and often go unsolved. Tensions build. To weaken commitments. Mutual respect is not always available. And, unconditional love and acceptance does not always last. How to build a strong connection to withstand the onslaught of the challenges of life can be?
Nobody ever said that marriage is very simple. Marriage is hard work. For a marriage requires highly satisfactory, and lasting for a high-levelInvestment. It needs to know his time and energy to learn and understand your partner, to set goals and their dreams together, and have fun and enjoy each other. Couples sometimes lose touch with each other and to grow apart when they get too lax and do not work on their marriage. But if they do, they are much more likely to feel very close and very well maintained by their partners.
Couples who can invest in their marriages to build deep friendships. Researchers have found that the level of aFriendship is the greatest pair of indicator of success in marriage. Couples who are close and are best friends more happiness and contentment in their lives. The best friends are reliable, safe, understanding, love, acceptance and respect. The best friends are a strong buffer in difficult times. You can rely on them. They are supported and faithful. The best friends can work through conflicts and pressures that threaten the relationship. Best friends do not give up another.Forgive me. Share.
You can have your spouse partner and friend, but you already have your spouse's best friend? If your marriage is not all that you want it and want to start investing more into the marriage to make it better, why not start with your friendship. You may find that it is probably one of the largest investments you will ever make.
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