One of the quickest ways to improve your marriage is to translate your love into action. An excellent way, your love will be put into action by contact. And no guys, I do not mean grope your wife. Non-sexual loving touch helps to bond you together. Consistently maintaining that bond of intimacy in your relationship.
It's the little everyday gestures of kindness and love that will strengthen your relationship. As my partner, Dallas Munkholm, it will often,"If you do not do the little things, then the big things are just so much fluff." The big gesture is obviously very hollow, if not do the everyday things that say "I care about you."
We have many customers who say: "I simply do not like I love him (or not)." That, unfortunately is a common theme in couples seek marriage counseling was feeling. In contrast to what many believe, love is not a feeling, it's something to do what you do. Loving feelingsLove to follow policies.
You may not feel very loving to your partner now, but if you start to consistently give small gifts of love, when you touch it with love and kindness, you will find that loving feeling again. This loving touch and gifts of love, freely given without conditions. There is no room for keeping score or a return to be expected.
You've heard the saying, "Reach Out and Touch someone today." Now reachout and touch your partner today and every day. Enjoy the warmth and closeness that comes a connection to another.
We had customers, we call Jen and Matt. Jen refused to even sit next to Matt while she watched television. Their reason was that every time he touched her he wanted sex. She wanted to be able to be close to or touched and held, but they went because they felt that if she was willing to touch the demand for sex would be there.
Matt stated that if heready, not in Jen-cuddling sexual contact opportunities, and close with no expectation that sex would follow that he really enjoyed the closeness. He also found that Jen much more willing to lovers when they feel loved and he was joined by other means.
There are ways to countably lovingly touch your partner. Here are some examples. Try it out. Be creative and make up your own.
1. Keep your hands when walking. 2. Put your hand on the leg of your partner while you are3 Drive. Sit close enough to touch the arms or legs. 4. Caress your partner's hand and arm. 5. Give your partner a foot massage. 6. Or a hand, shoulder or neck massage. 7. Forget your partner before you leave the house.
8. Kiss your partner when you return.
9. Play footsie in a restaurant or elsewhere.
10. Dance in the kitchen.
11. To set up the tie.
12. Tuck in a stray tag.
13. Touch your partner's hair stand on end
14. Brush each other asThey pass on.
15. Hug often.
16. "Spoon" or touch during sleep.
17. Brush your partner's cheek.
18. Run your finger across the back.
19. Kiss your partner's hand or the back of the neck.
20. On the lap of the partner or they sit on yours.
It only takes a moment to connect lovingly with your partner, but the positive energy created by the connection lasts much longer. Accumulating enough of this positive energy will increaseTheir relationship to a new high.
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